At the end of August, I enjoyed a four-day road trip from St. Petersburg, FL to Pittsburgh, PA. The distance was just over 1,000 miles. I could’ve covered it in two long days, but I’m retired now. I’ve learned to slow down and enjoy the ride. That includes taking a little extra time for interesting stops and side trips.
I
didn’t grow up traveling this way. My dad was one of those ‘blow and go’
drivers who mapped out the quickest route to get from Point A to Point B with
no stopping in between. We’d get feverish and dehydrated lying in our sleeping
bags in the back of our Country Squire station wagon, blowing past billboards
advertising “Marvel Cave” or “Mysterious Gravity Hill” without giving a thought
(or daring to make a suggestion) about pulling over to see the sights as the car slowly
filled with the warming aroma of the tuna salad sandwiches Mom had packed for
us in the leaky cooler.
As a
child I thought this was the way road trips were done, but as an adult I’ve
decided to unlearn this behavior. Before this road trip I realized that I had
visited every state east of the Mississippi River except for Kentucky. That
gave me a target destination and travel route, and a great excuse to noodle through
Georgia and Tennessee back roads to get there.
It took
me a couple of days to settle into the road experience, but Kentucky was when I
finally relaxed and started to absorb the new landscape. In Louisville, I spent
the night at The Seelbach Hotel. Rumor has it that F. Scott Fitzgerald started
writing “The Great Gatsby” in their basement bar. Al Capone reportedly played
poker in one of their private rooms. The Seelbach Hotel is riddled with hidden doors,
secret passageways, and bootlegging tunnels. The criminal magic of it refilled
my creative well with fresh story ideas.
The
next day I visited Churchill Downs. Have you ever seen something so iconic that
when you do finally see it in person it gives you chills? The racetrack at Churchill
Downs did it for me. I imagined I heard the thunder of hoofbeats and the roar
of the crowd. As I continued north/northeast GPS took me down a Lexington horse
country back lane so exclusive the pastures looked like manicured lawns. I
drove past a private farm gate that was so obviously meant to impress that I knew
the security cameras were trained on me, so I waved.
Skipping
the interstate, I took another back road through Maysville, KY, a cute little
river town before crossing a bridge into Ohio. This was the strangest leg of my
journey because I was travelling fifty-four years into my past.
In the
fifth grade, when I was eleven, Mrs. Zingale was my social studies teacher. She
recognized that I loved history, especially archaeology. She gave me an extra
credit art project where I drew and colored the wall paintings from King Tut’s
tomb. Then she hung my drawings over the chalkboard for everyone to admire during
parent/teacher night. She was my 5th grade best friend.
In my
autograph book at year-end, Mrs. Zingale wrote, “You’ll be hearing from me.” I
had no idea what she meant until one day that summer she called my mother and
offered to take me with her daughter and her daughter’s friend on a weekend canoe
ride down the Mohican River. I’d never been away from home by myself before. I
felt like I was all grown up and I’d won the lottery all rolled into one.
Mrs.
Zingale said we’d see some old Indian mounds along the river. Being the little nerd
that I was (and honestly still am) I pulled out a musty Encyclopedia and researched “Mound Builder Culture.” The reference article talked about the many ancient
mounds dotting the Ohio River Valley, but the star of the show was the Great
Serpent Mound near Peebles, Ohio.
The four of us never made it to The Great Serpent Mound in 1969. But in 2023, on my four-day road trip north, I did.
When
you were a child, was there something you wanted to see or somewhere you wanted
to visit, but you never did? Grab a friend and fix that dropped stitch. Seeing
The Great Serpent Mound reminded me of my eleven-year-old self who held such
unbelievable dreams of lifetime adventures and of becoming a writer. It’s never too late check that box.
These adventures translate into experiences that can be shared with our readers
via our words, like I just did with you.
I love road trips where time is not pressing and we've come to think of 250 miles being just right for a day's drive. Although we will sometimes drive much farther if we then plan to stay two or three days at the destination and do day trips from that spot.
ReplyDeleteThe serpent mound and its nearby cousins are fascinating and I enjoyed visiting and hiking in that area back in my days of living in the greater Cincinnati area.
My Dad traveled like your Dad, except that we also had to start driving at 4:30 a.m. or so. I'll never forget driving by the sign that said "this way to the Grand Cnyon." I haven't made it there yet, but I will one day!
ReplyDeleteA while ago, an old high school friend and I decided that we needed to do a leisurely cross-country drive at least once in this lifetime. We spent three weeks (and it wasn't any where near enough time!) wandering from Gettysburg to Oregon by a northern route, ending up in Oregon, where one of my daughters was living (in a Ken Kesey-type converted school bus.) We drove down the coast to California, where two of her sisters lived. Then we set off via a southern route to come back. Great trip.
ReplyDeleteI love road trips and I've just come off another big one to Paris for eight days. The amazing new insights, perspectives, and growth easily offset the hassles of travelling. Luckily, on this trip, my companions included my fluent French speaking niece and my genius Metro and train problem solving goddaughter!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I are huge fans of the road trip. My favorite was the one in which we visited TEN National Parks and/or National Monuments. Such fun. Sounds like I should put yours next on our list. We also drove through the UK last year—highly recommend, if you can master driving on the "other" side of the car!
ReplyDeleteMy favorite kind of road trip is when we set out on a country road in the general direction of our destination which might be a state or two away. We switch to other roads as needed to keep on in that general direction, and sometimes wonder where the hell we are, but so far we've always ended up getting where we wanted to be and we've had good adventures along the way. These days there's GPS which seems like cheating.
ReplyDeleteI love GPS - it removes my anxiety about getting lost. A real game changer. On my latest road trip, we went to the Gard du Nord train station, picked a random local town on the ticket, and went for lunch. Turned out to be a town honoring Joan D'Arc. Great fun, and completely random. I do need a couple of days of down time before I'm ready to hit the road again. LOL
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