Holiday Short Stories By WWK Authors Presented This Season:

11/30 KM Rockwood's "Holiday Summons"
12/06 "Death By Dictionary" by Gloria Alden
12/12 E. B. Davis's "The Christmas Tree"
12/18 "Femme Fatally Yours" by Paula Gail Benson
12/24 Kara Cerise's "The Ho-Ho Plan"
12/30 "Last Minute Shopping" by Shari Randall

For another free short story, check out E. B. Davis's "The Christmas Cookie Conviction" on Kings River Life online magazine at:

Put A Shaker of Margaritas: That Mysterious Woman on your holiday list. Three WWK authors have short stories in this Mozark Press anthology. Look for "Moving On" by Paula Gail Benson, "Sauna" by KM Rockwood, and "Wishing For Ignorance" by E. B. Davis. Paper or eformat are available at Amazon.

Gloria Alden has released the fourth book, The Body in the Goldenrod, in her Catherine Jewel series. It's available in print and in eformat. Here are two links to the book: Amazon and Kobo. Put it on your "TBR" or Christmas list!

Carla Damron's latest project, THE STONE NECKLACE, a literary novel about five lives that intersect, and are forever changed, by a senseless accident, has been picked up by Story River Books for publication in 2016. Story River is an arm of the University of South Carolina Press and is under the leadership of editor-in-chief author Pat Conroy. Congratulations, Carla!

A great stocking stuffer, Chesapeake Crimes: Homicidal Holidays is available at Wildside Press or Amazon. This anthology includes short stories by WWK bloggers Shari Randall ("Disco Donna") and E. B. Davis ("Compromised Circumstances").

Monday, July 18, 2011


I read an interview in Esquire Magazine years ago with Kris Kristofferson. He said, to paraphrase, that when building a career or learning your profession or art, sometimes you have to be selfish. At the time, I was in my twenties. I remember agreeing with his statement, still do. But…life changes.

Everyone expects the self-indulgence of twenty-something-year-olds. No one expects someone in their fifties to act self-indulgently. In fact, images of the supportive mother or grandma come to mind. So, here I am building a new career in my fifties and being self-indulgent. How becoming is that?

Not very becoming if we follow the “norm.” But what is the norm? Is normal, normal anymore?

Our economy has destroyed our images of what we call a normal life path. In our fifties we should be: looking forward to retirement in a few years, getting satisfaction from careers that we’ve advanced in and have dedicated thirty years of our life to, devoting ourselves to giving-back to charities and those who have supported us, and, for those of us with children, enjoying the forthcoming generations. In 2008, when the stock market dropped to half its value, retirement plans for many became unrealistic, a fantasy. Some of the first people let go were those of middle management because they were high paid and had the most benefits. Many people who have become unemployed have had to build new skills for new careers. Job searching alone is a time sucking chore although rarely selfish.

Self-fulfillment and actualization became catch-phrases years ago. Not everyone building a new career is unemployed. Those who have become disillusioned by their first careers start new careers using hobbies and interests as a basis. People in their fifties are part of the so-called “Me” generation. You can call us self-indulgent, but you can’t call us lazy. Building a new career is hard work. And by the way—what’s wrong with doing something you like?

When my husband becomes dissatisfied with his business and my children are experiencing the turbulence of changing from students to professionals, do I have the right to be selfish? Are all my above paragraphs self-justification for selfishness? I wish I had a definitive answer. My problem is I can’t stop writing.


Pauline Alldred said...

I think if you try to be normal and do something you don't want to do, gremlins pop up and sabotage your efforts. Others sense your heart isn't in what you're pretending to like so I say, write on.

E. B. Davis said...

I so agree, Pauline. I tried substitute teaching. Not only did I hate it, but I didn't think I was particularly good at it. Often writers aren't the most extroverted people, which I think is a characteristic of a good teacher. Students need outgoing friendly teachers. So, yes. I do what I'm drawn to.

June Shaw said...

Oh, yes! All of us who passed that being-a-young-parent mark have a right to take care of ourselves now. I try to. So does my amateur sleuth. And we're both having fun!

E. B. Davis said...

Having fun was a primary goal of mine, June. Thanks for reminding me. Sometimes this feels like work! My poor MC, Abby, isn't having a good time, though. But from the ashes new life grows.

Donnell said...

Okay, E.B. you're making me think early in the morning, and I don't like it . I did a great job of being a wife, mom, employee, volunteer. And then when my kids were in high school -- when I was manning, stocking and accounting for every concession stand there, it hit me. In a few years my kids were going to be gone, and I would need something to fill a tremendous void.

When other empty nesters were saying I feel so "empty", I had my writing; I had my goal of becoming a published author.

Selfish, oh, yeah, but I've already put them first. And it's selfish that is keeping us young and our minds engaged, so I can't see anything wrong with that, can you?

E. B. Davis said...

OMG, Donnell. I not only manned the concession stand, but I was also team mom on every team my son played on (and he played football and baseball). Yes I lugged cases of Gatorade around in my trunk, made subs for fundraisers and had team parties.

Yes-I did plan this to fill the void since I wrote my first novel when my oldest left for college. But I also wonder if I should be bringing home a paycheck. Maybe I'll be able to contribute income in the future, but now, I don't seem very productive (at least in a monetary sense).

Guess that makes me feel guilty.

Donnell said...

E.B. I don't feel guilty. My children knew I was there for them. Always will be. Now it's our turn :)))) From one Gatorade lifter to the next

Kara Cerise said...

I also have the "I can't stop writing" problem:) If I can't get to a computer I'll write on scraps of paper, a paper towel or keep it in my head. At times it does feel selfish but I just can't stop...

E. B. Davis said...

The new short for Fish Nets sounded fascinating, so I'm glad you can't stop!

morganalyx said...

I think taking care of one's self has been termed "selfish" too often, & by too many people. You HAVE to take care of yourself in order to be able to properly take care of others. To do otherwise is being untrue & unfair to yourself.

It's been my experience that, when someone calls me (or my actions) selfish, it's usually because I didn't give them what they wanted at the time. Like, they wanted me to put my needs/life on hold for, who's being selfish in that case?

Great post, EB!

E. B. Davis said...

I think that you're right Alyx. If I would just finished up my novel, sell it and become rich and famous...

Ellis Vidler said...

I think there's a lot to be said for this kind of selfishness, Elaine. We give much of our youth to meeting others' needs. Now it's our turn. Alyx's comment was a good one too--we're often accused of selfishness when we don't meet someone else's needs. Good post!