Saturday, February 28, 2026

What Do You Do In Your Free Time?

 By Kait Carson

A friend asked me that question, and it gave me pause. It wasn’t one I expected or had anyone ask before. Unless you are a well-known author or under contract to a publisher, the more usual question is: But what do you do all day? Writing is work, hard work, but it doesn’t entail regular hours or punching a time clock, and years can go by before a writer’s efforts bear fruit, so civilians may not recognize our labor. Those of us in the trenches know better. My friend is not a writer, but she was a full-time mom. She understands that perception often differs from reality. Her husband once asked her what she did all day. She had a wonderful, pithy response, but not one I can share in this space.

Because most people think writing is what I do in my free time, the question took me by surprise. And I had to think about it. The answer is: a lot. I haven’t thrown pots in a while, but if I can find a place to rent kiln time, I hope to get back to it. I crochet and have graduated from afghans to sweaters. Living in Maine, I’ve paused scuba diving in favor of snowshoeing in the winter and hiking in the snowless seasons. Wildlife and nature photography is another passion. And let’s not forget baking, much to my waistline’s detriment. Spring is coming, and that means gardening. I’m grateful for the sixteen-hour days we have in my part of Maine. Lots of time to write all day and still head to the garden after work. So, that about wraps up what I currently do in my free time, but wait, as they say on daytime game shows, there’s more!

I’ve got a fistful of bucket list projects. My mom was a fantastic knitter, but she never had the patience to teach me. Last week’s Wirecutter (the product review section of the New York Times) featured the best fiber craft kits for adults, including two scarf knitting kits. Coincidence? I think not. Now I’m on the hunt for a needlepoint kit. That’s a skill I’d like to refresh. And while I’m at it, embroidery sounds pretty good.

What about you? What do you do in your free time?

Kait Carson writes the Hayden Kent Mysteries, set in the Fabulous Florida Keys, and is at work on a new mystery series set in her adopted state of Maine. Her short fiction has been nationally published in the True Confessions magazines and in Woman’s World. Kait’s short story, “Gutted, Filleted, and Fried”, appeared in the Silver Falchion Award nominated Guppy Anthology Hook, Line, and Sinker. Her nonfiction essay was included in the Agatha Award-winning book Writing the Cozy Mystery. She is a former President of the Guppy Chapter of Sisters in Crime, a member of Sisters in Crime, and Guppies.

 

19 comments:

  1. Let’s see- there is mah Jongg, canasta, dining out with friends, going to shows, vegetating, volunteering, and don’t forget grandkids, And sleeping.

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    1. LOL! You sleep? Joking. Sounds like a full life, Debra. Especially the grandkids.

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  2. Reading is a favorite past time. And being out in nature is always high on my list of things to do when I have "free time"--sometimes with binoculars, sometimes with a camera, sometimes just with my eyes and ears.

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  3. Hiking, reading...but I'm a culture vulture, so I love theater, dance, and poking around museums. Would love to pick up knitting! I'm going to check out those fiber kits you mentioned.

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    1. I know, they sound wonderful, especially for beginners. Trust Wirecutter to come through.

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  4. Gardening, garden photography, travel, opera and professional soccer, and walking the standard poodles.

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  5. Do visits to doctors count? Just kidding (not.)
    I live in a retirement community. I use the pools for exercise at least three times a week, including one very social "water walking" class where we exercise our voices as much as our bodies. I visit several people who have moved on from our independent living to nursing home care. I have at least one meal a day with friends in one of the communal dining rooms, often a leisurely event. There are several miles of paved walking paths, many through the woods, and if weather permits, I use them. Then there are my plants--I've promised a few people I will grow them African violet plants from the ones I have. They are tiny now but I will nurture them until the reach blooming size. Lots of organized bus trips (think elementary school field trips.) I tend to go on the ones that visit interesting restaurants and historic sites. Not so much the shopping oriented ones. There's my embroidery, although as my manual dexterity decreases, I do less of it. And, of course, reading.

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    2. I wanted to edit, but it wouldn't let me, so I had to delete the first response.

      Sounds like a full life, KM, when do you have time to write???? I love your short stories.

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  6. I love to take pictures and visit all kinds of historic places and museums. We also take the kayaks out in warmer weather.

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    1. Photography! And you live in a great area for historic places. Do you share them on FB? Have I missed them?

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  7. You are one busy lady. I wish I could point to a lot of accomplishments, but I find myself dealing with lots of legal details like handling a friend’s finances because of dementia and just other things that seem to crop up. I would like to try my hand at short stories and do some gardening as soon as the weather allows.

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    1. I'll be looking forward to the short stories, Grace, and you live in fabulous area for gardening.

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  8. I'm so impressed with your creativity! I cross stitch, and I've recently become addicted to diamond dot art, which doesn't require much talent. I'm determined to learn to knit this year. And I've just taken up mah jong and euchre. Staying busy. Too busy.

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    1. Oh, Euchre. I've heard of it, but know nothing about it. You'll need to share! I'm checking out diamond dot art. Sounds intriguing.

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  9. I appreciate this topic because it is something I have been thinking about a lot.
    Currently, I am still working, but have been out of work because of an injury. I have been waiting for a dr’s appt to see what direction I go in-I am contemplating the possibility of retiring not necessarily out of choice.
    My question is what would I do with the time I will have.
    Limitations include some mobility issues because of the current situation. I don’t know how much that will change although I am trying to be optimistic in hoping it will improve.
    I no longer have a car so traveling, even locally, has become more of an issue.
    In the past I did quite a lot of traveling, photography and just a lot of walking around different areas.
    Now I do read, but I am a fast reader and go through books quickly; there is only so much reading I can do. I enjoy listening to music, but don’t consider that as an adequate occupation of time since it can be done in conjunction with something else. I am not a craft person. I would like to volunteer as I have always enjoyed doing things for and with other people but right now physical limitations make that problematic.
    If I go back to work, some of these issues will be addressed.
    I do have to consider the possibility, if not at this time, the decision will come up again in the near future.
    Any suggestions?

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  10. I do Sudoku puzzles to relax.

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