At age eighty-six, I find I'm slowing down. The past two years were hectic ones for me. Two years in a row, I wrote two books simultaneously--in one case, the first book in a new series--while editing five or six books that were rereleased. Of course each book required promotion via guest blogs, interviews, podcasts and author takeovers. Certainly a wonderful time in an author's career, but at times I felt overwhelmed.
These days I no longer drive long distances or travel abroad. Though I continue to take three or four exercise classes a week, I need to rest briefly after every activity. Writing-wise, I'm happy to be writing one book and editing another. Oddly enough, my daily work output hasn't diminished, but then I was always happy if I wrote two or three pages a day. I've cut down on many of my writerly activities. After getting COVID at the last two conferences I attended, I no longer attend conferences. I sorely miss getting together with my writer friends in person, but my health demands that I limit events to those close to home.
I continue to do Zooming events, as well as social media interviews and author takeovers, and in this way stay in touch with readers and the writing world. Even so, I'm learning to pace myself and to not over-schedule events because my energy level is not what it was.
I suppose there will come a time when I can no longer write mysteries and books for kids. But until that day arrives, I'll keep on plotting scenes in my head.
You may be slowing down, but when it comes to writing, I want to be like you when I grow up.
ReplyDeleteLOL! I know. My daughter-in-law says I'm a unicorn. Just keep on traveling and trekking in the wild country.
DeleteYour "slowing down" still outpaces most writer's output. Being realistic about what you can do and setting your priorities show strength, determination, and common sense. I predict that you will always be plotting scenes in your head.
ReplyDeleteHugs, Marilyn, and you are doing great!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kait. I always feel like I should be doing more, promoting-wise. And now I simply don't have the energy to do more.
DeleteYou are so right, Kathleen, I need to be realisitc. Though at times I yearn for the days when I was traveling and not having to rest in between activities,
ReplyDeleteI love your books and do hope you keep writing no matter the pace. Deborah
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Deborah!!
ReplyDeleteMore power to you, Marilyn, literally and figuratively. You're amazing.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Molly. I am lucky that I have good genes. As I told one of my publishers recently who would like me to do more to promote a book I have with him, I'm happy to do a few easy things, but really, I'm just about doing as much as I can.
DeleteThanks for sharing your thoughts, Marilyn. I'm only 69, but I was diagnosed with CFS (chronic fatigue syndrome) a few months ago which is definitely slowing me down. Now, instead of writing 9-10 hours a day, I usually have to stop at 6, then nap. (I take daily naps now.) I'm sorry you got Covid at the last two conferences you went to--that's a big reason I don't attend many conferences. With my husband's health issues, and now mine, I can't afford to get Covid--if my husband got it, according to our doctor, he wouldn't die, or likely be hospitalized (since we've had every booster available) but he would be stuck in bed for God only knows how long, so we don't risk it. That's why we still mask in public. I'm going to LCC in SF since it's just a short drive away, but I'll be masked throughout, which to be honest, gets to be a pain. (Also, I can't risk eating in restaurants--need to stick to outdoor patios, which is tricky, and sometimes cold.) It's like having an invisible disability and being on the outside looking in, unable to participate. I know of a couple people who got Long Covid after eating with groups at conferences and their health is now ruined as a result. I'm not about to risk my health or my husband's for a meal and social interaction. Which is why this LCC will likely be my last in-person conference. C'est la vie. It is what it is. On the good news front, I'm excited to say I have four books releasing in 2026 (only one of which is a mystery :)
ReplyDeleteOh, Laura, I know just how you feel! Enjoy every minute of LCC! And don't hesitate to Zoom with writer friends.
DeleteI think you are amazing, Marilyn! I wish I had your energy.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lori. Today I have energy. Tuesday, I got so tired in the middle of the afternoon, I had to take a 2-hour nap, something I never do!
DeleteL'Chaim... even if it is a little slower, enjoy every moment ... I'm thrilled with where your writing still takes you (even if in person conferences have been sacrificed and naps occasionally are needed).
ReplyDeleteDebra, I miss knowing we won't be getting together, catching up at Malice. I am happy at all I've accomplished. Writing is my way of life, and I'm glad to have my place among my fellow writers.
DeleteLook at what you can do and you will see they outweigh what you no longer feel comfortable doing.
ReplyDeleteI think you are a role model for your interest and desire to accomplish as much you used to, but you are also probably still doing more than most people a lot younger than you.
It’s taking care of yourself that is important and enables you to be as productive as you are.
Marilyn, you're amazing for 86! I'd have never known. But good for you to take care of yourself in this way. Writing is valuable for the mind and spirit, but resting and knowing your limits is valuable for life. Hugs. Daryl
ReplyDeleteThank you my dear friend. Frankly, I think we're all amazing!!
DeleteYou are amazing! I think of all you've accomplished and marvel. Heavens, you've certainly earned the right to slow a bit. Your slow is my normal. LOL Miss seeing you at Malice. Judy
ReplyDeleteThanks, Judy. I'm still learning to accept that I'm doing all that I can in the time that I have.
DeleteMarilyn, your idea of slowing down sounds mighty productive to me! I love your work and hope you'll never stop writing!
ReplyDeleteKeep up the GREAT work and ENJOY!
ReplyDeleteIt seems that slowing down is one of the best ways to see a truth we always know but often miss anyway--every moment is a gift. Marilyn, your moments seem to be incredibly full. Inspiring, actually ( ;
ReplyDeleteYou are the energizer bunny. We’re the same and you leave me in the dust. Zoom soon? Send me an email.
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