By Kait Carson
This will be my last post until the New Year, and I want to say thank you. To all of my readers, and to my blogmates. To my friends and family. To people I know and to those that I don’t. You all have taught me so much and enriched my life in so many ways. I am so very grateful. They say everyone needs a crew. I’m lucky to have found mine. Thank you.
2025 has been a helluva ride. On November 27th, I’ll be sitting at my Thanksgiving table with my husband (closely attended by three cats and a dog because, well, food) and reflecting on all the wonderful, crazy, breathtaking experiences of 2025. Our traditional Thanksgiving dinner is simple. Roast chicken, mashed potatoes, homemade cranberry sauce, stuffing, and pumpkin pie. If we’re lucky, a light snow will be falling. We may dream of a white Christmas, but I’m here to tell you that a white Thanksgiving has a charm all its own.We’ll talk about Thanksgivings past. The days when I worked with law enforcement as a civilian volunteer and issued an open invitation for anyone working the holiday to stop by for a bite. A police car occupied every bit of lawn and parking space at my house. My newly moved in next-door neighbors, understandably concerned that something awful had happened, called in a panic. When I explained what was going on, they came over to join in the fun. Turned out they both worked for the District Attorney’s Office and knew a lot of my guests.
Then there is the indelible childhood memory of watching the turkey go up in flames. I grew up in apartments, and they had tiny galley kitchens with even smaller appliances. My mother had a big family. Dad would cook the bird outside on the grill when he could, but some years, that didn’t work out. As a religious devotee of Gourmet Magazine, my mother spatchcocked the bird, baked it, and intended to finish it under the broiler. It went well until a wee bit of the skin got too close to the flame and ignited. Still would have been fine, except Dad reached for the first glass that came to hand. Scotch. Yep. Turkey FlambĂ©. I liked it, but I think I was alone in my preference. Sometimes it pays to be seven. While we eat, we’ll talk about our plans for Christmas and the year ahead. After dinner, we’ll light the Christmas houses display my husband inherited from his mother. Then we’ll watch Planes, Trains, and Automobiles for the twenty-something time and debate whether Die Hard is a Christmas movie. I’m a no. Hubs is a yes.What does this have to do with writing? Nothing and everything. It’s moments like these that fill the well and sometimes provide scene fodder.
What are your holiday traditions? Have any of your holidays been blessed with outlandish events? Will you dish?
Kait Carson writes the Hayden Kent Mysteries, set in the Fabulous
Florida Keys, and is at work on a new mystery series set in her adopted state
of Maine. Her short fiction has been nationally published in the True
Confessions magazines and in Woman’s World. Kait’s short story, “Gutted,
Filleted, and Fried”, appeared in the Silver Falchion Award nominated Guppy
Anthology Hook, Line, and Sinker. Her nonfiction essay was included in
the Agatha Award-winning book Writing the Cozy Mystery. She is a former
President of the Guppy Chapter of Sisters in Crime, a member of Sisters in
Crime, and Guppies.



As far as I know, we'll be the only ones on our lake in Michigan's U.P. for Thanksgiving. The closest neighbor maybe three miles away, but if they're not in, then closer to eight by roads (ravens and eagles always have shorter direct distances). Just the two of us, no critters anymore, although we'll probably video-chat with family. So it will be quiet, but still full of thanks.
ReplyDeleteSounds perfect, Jim!
DeleteYour turkey story brings to mind an unfortunate friend who, expecting a crowd for a noon-time Thanksgiving dinner, set her alarm for a.m. to start the turkey. In her bleary, half-awake state, she set the over to self-clean and cremated the poor thing.
ReplyDeleteIt's cruel, but I am laughing! Sounds like she needs to be in my family.
DeleteOMG You made me laugh so hard I almost fell off my chair!
DeleteMy mother invited two international college students for Thanksgiving dinner. All went well until she pulled out the oven rack to baste the turkey. The bird slid out of the pan and across the kitchen floor. Our guests were astonished; the turkey was delicious.
ReplyDeleteNow that's a visual! Did she explain it was an old family Thanksgiving tradition?
DeleteBeautifully written, Kait. It gave me all the warm fuzzies, as well as a nice laugh! Happiest of Thanksgivings to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lori, and to you and yours.
DeleteLoved your memories. Only one I can share that was a disaster occurred when I was single and fairly new in the town I was working in. A new friend's mother invited me to join their extended family for Thanksgiving as I wasn't flying home to be with mine. I gladly accepted. The table was set beautifully; the daughters had brought the side dishes and they were in the hostess's second oven, pies on the counter were tempting, and the hostess was absolutely relaxed as we enjoyed pre-dinner ritual/appetizers. We all went to the table. That's when the hostess realized the oven with the turkey had never been turned on. Well... let's say, it's a good thing the side dishes and pies were plentiful.
ReplyDeleteNice memories to relive, Kait. My Thanksgivings these days are pretty quiet. Usually I spend them with friends because trying to navigate airports to see children and grands has become too chaotic and unpredictable. But we always talk or Facetime, so they aren't so far away. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
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