Friday, January 3, 2025

The Joy is in the Journey, by Lori Roberts Herbst

 


This time last year, I set these writing goals for 2024:

·      Publish GRAVEN IMAGES, book 6 in the Callie Cassidy Mystery series.

·      Outline the first three books of a new series, the Seahorse Bay Mysteries.

·      Draft, revise, and ultimately publish book one, LARCENY AT THE LIGHTHOUSE.

·      Draft the second book in the series, ARSON AT THE AQUARIUM. Get it ready for early 2025 publication.

 

These were just a few of my marketing goals:

·      Learn to use BookFunnel to increase my newsletter subscriber numbers.

·      Branch out on social media, to include Threads and Bluesky.

·      Contribute more to the cozy Facebook sites on which I so enjoy lurking.

·      Bundle the first three books in the Callie Cassidy Mystery series.

·      Find libraries and bookstores in my new area that might carry my books.

 

Here’s what I’ve completed on those lists:

·      …zzz…

 

So, what happened to all those lofty plans? Life, I suppose you could say.

 

After publishing GRAVEN IMAGES on schedule in April, the rest of my goals fell by the wayside. See, it’s like this: my husband retired last January, and we moved from our nearly lifelong home state of Texas to beautiful Colorado. We contracted on a new build home in sight of Pikes Peak and moved in just days before GRAVEN IMAGES released. 

 

And I got terribly distracted. 

 

Our new home is in a 55+ community, and we have access to so many fun activities and new friends. Our new state boasts a plethora of stunning locales to explore. And now I have a husband who is home…well, let’s just say a lot more than he used to be. So, I put aside my goal sheet — just for a few weeks, I told myself. That became a month. Then…I’m sure you get the picture.

 

Somewhere along the way, I began to question whether I’d ever get back into my writing — whether I’d ever meet the old goals or even make new ones. Maybe it simply wasn’t meant to be…

 

But recently, I’ve found myself really missing it all — the fingers flying across the keyboard as a new scene comes to life, the creation of characters and all their foibles, the telling of stories. Lately, each morning I wake up with a brain crammed with possibilities.

 

That’s how I know I’m ready again.

 

Here’s what I’ve learned from all this: there’s nothing wrong with a little flexibility. My nature is to be driven, goal-oriented, all-in. If I miss a deadline, self-imposed though it may be, my instinct is to label myself a failure and throw in the towel. Instead, I’ve realized I can cut myself some slack and simply enjoy the fact that I am able to veer from my path, revel in the side trip, and eventually find my way back. My goals and plans will be waiting.

 

I have an almost complete outline for book 1 in the Seahorse Bay Mystery series. Next week, I will begin writing the words and stories that live in my head, clamoring to get out. And if somewhere along the way I get distracted again, so be it.

 

The joy is in the journey.

 

How do you handle unmet goals — or are you one of those extraordinary creatures who meet them all?

 

The Callie Cassidy Mystery series is available on Amazon Kindle, Kindle Unlimited, and paperback.

 

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Lori Roberts Herbst writes the Callie Cassidy Mysteries, a cozy mystery series set in Rock Creek Village, Colorado, and the (hopefully) soon-to-be-released Seahorse Bay Mysteries, set in a Texas cruise port town. To find out more and to sign up for her newsletter, go to www.lorirobertsherbst.com 

16 comments:

  1. You are so right. The joy is in the journey.

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    1. I do also thrive on productivity, so hopefully that's part of my upcoming journey!

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  2. We all need vacations to refresh. Sometimes we need a long vacation. Best of luck with the new series.

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    1. Thank you, Jim! Same to you!

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  3. Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, Kait slaps her knee and laughs some more at the thought of being an extraordinary creature who meets all goals. It depends on why I’m shilly-shallying. If it’s a case of imposter syndrome, I will indulge myself for a day or two and then give myself a stern talking to. If it’s burn-out, then I give myself permission to step back and recharge. You have turned your life upside down and are in the process of recreating it – indulge – you need to refill the well locally, then you’ll be ready to move one. Congrats on the move, and on having a completed draft in the wings.

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    1. Thank you, Kait! I needed to hear that!!!

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  4. You learned a great lesson, Lori. Happy New Year, happy new outlook, and happy new life in Colorado!

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    1. Lori Roberts HerbstJanuary 3, 2025 at 1:53 PM

      Thank you, Molly. The older I get, the more those lessons seem to come!

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  5. Enjoy your new home! The writing will come when you're ready. I had more travel than usual in 2024 and am looking forward to a catchup 2025.

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    1. Thank you, Margaret! I hope we both catch up in 2025!

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  6. I’m amazed that all you’ve gotten accomplished this past year. Now that you are settled in your new home and getting accustomed to your lives in a new environment and being together daily, this coming year will be terrific for you. Happy new year.

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    1. Thanks, Grace! Last year was great, too — just in a different way. But I'm ready to get back into a writing routine for sure!

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  7. Sometimes we all need mental health or emotional breaks so we can return and write with joy and gusto. Glad you got your mojo back.

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    1. I so agree, Debra. It's just a learning process to still cut myself some slack when I take that break.

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  8. I live in a retirement community, and I know how time can just slip away when you're surrounded by friendly people who no longer have the constraints of responsibilities and jobs. A trip to the mailbox can turn into several long discussions with several people; a "quick lunch" in the dining room can extend for well over an hour because I saw a friend & sat at their table.
    Congrats on the life changes, and it sound like you're ready to get back on track.

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    1. You are so right, Kathleen! Retired people are talkers. I love that, but it does cut into my writing time!

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