Showing posts with label Festivus. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Festivus. Show all posts

Monday, November 18, 2013

Time for Thanksgifting!


Thanksgifting? Isn’t that a typo?

Nope. It’s one of my favorite holiday celebrations.
Like Seinfeld’s made up holiday, Festivus, this holiday celebration is a recent invention. Unlike Festivus, there is no airing of grievances; just lots of good food, and most importantly, lots of presents.
The staff and volunteers at Kingstowne Library have been Thanksgifting for close to ten years. No one remembers exactly how it started, but everyone looks forward to it every year.

This is how Thanksgifting works. Everyone buys a toy that they would have liked to receive when they were a child. The gift is wrapped and stacked in a bow and tinsel covered pile. Everyone takes a turn unwrapping a gift and then guessing who donated it. After a few Thanksgifting celebrations, it was easy to guess that Ted was crazy about Matchbox cars and action figures when he was a little boy. Lori, who had horses when she was a girl, always donated a toy with a horse theme. Most people have figured out that whenever a gift is accompanied by a Nancy Drew book, it’s from me.

Some staff are a bit harder to pin down, or they just want to keep us guessing. The unwrapping is usually followed by a reminiscence about holidays past. We have learned a lot about each other over the years by sharing these memories.

Unlike George Costanza’s Human Fund, the beneficiary of Thanksgifting is real. Koinonia Cares is a local charity that distributes our gifts to families in need.

In the weeks between Halloween and New Year’s Day, it is easy to feel more stressed out than festive. Thanksgifting is one day when giving really feels better than receiving.

What’s your favorite holiday? What is the one gift that you would have liked to receive when you were a child?