tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post5748398694813050408..comments2024-03-28T18:40:05.789-04:00Comments on Writers Who Kill: The Rise of the SelfiesJim Jacksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-13156530475880653212014-09-11T16:54:44.108-04:002014-09-11T16:54:44.108-04:00Kara, I hadn't thought of that, but you're...Kara, I hadn't thought of that, but you're right. I'll consider that for a short story or maybe in my next book since I just finished my fourth, it's too late for that.<br /><br />Actually, Kara, when I was researching this, there were articles telling you how to pose. I din't bother reading them because I wasn't interested. I think it's rather funny. Hopefully, they'll grow out of it. Could you imagine us doing that? :-)Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-17706098026546768172014-09-11T16:14:46.869-04:002014-09-11T16:14:46.869-04:00I think a narcissist who constantly takes selfies ...I think a narcissist who constantly takes selfies would make a great character, Gloria.<br /><br />I've noticed that some teens and young adults know just how to pose for the camera. (Right hand on hip, left ankle crossed over right ankle, head tilted slightly down and to the left, eyes looking up.) They can dramatically pout or cringe on cue, too.Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-57362326847522112802014-09-11T12:52:18.599-04:002014-09-11T12:52:18.599-04:00Shari, I had fun going through all the images, and...Shari, I had fun going through all the images, and like you, I'm hoping it was a joke. It probably was.<br /><br />I think you're right, Shari. My California daughter recently had her niece, who had just graduated from high school, out to visit. She paid for everything and was disappointed because her niece was always engrossed in her smartphone screen. She'd look at things just long enough to see if it was worth taking a picture of it. I'm thinking it's more an age thing, because my granddaughter is a sweet girl and volunteers for mission work, etc.and helps out with her mother's daycare business whenever asked. Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-81535476585153676682014-09-11T10:38:52.320-04:002014-09-11T10:38:52.320-04:00Well, since I just returned from a trip and was in...Well, since I just returned from a trip and was in several selfies with my husband, I will attempt to draw a distinction between those "tourist selfies" and the selfie-selfie (and Gloria - you found some good example photos! that last one - yikes! hope it was done in jest)<br />I agree with E. B. - we do live in narcissistic times. I blame the internet (and by extension, Al Gore, right Jim? ;) The currency of the internet is visual. <br />On my trip I noticed people in the Sistine Chapel - the Sistine Chapel! - who never looked around because they were so engrossed in their smartphone screens. Except when they took a selfie with it.<br />Interesting that spellcheck tries to turn "selfie" into "selfless."Shari Randallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16425493627354028820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-34849228467758120402014-09-11T09:54:43.121-04:002014-09-11T09:54:43.121-04:00Kathleen, I think those would be funny. Actually, ...Kathleen, I think those would be funny. Actually, I've been in a few selfies when my daughter wanted a picture of us on a ferry in San Francisco Bay or a few other places.<br /><br />Jim, I totally agree with you on that about religion. I have my own beliefs, but would never force them on someone else. I see much of the problems in the world today due to religious intolerance. Take the middle-east, for instance, and there are those in this country, who believe that only their religion should be the one and only in our country.Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-30212912642582856842014-09-11T09:22:10.874-04:002014-09-11T09:22:10.874-04:00Elaine,
I should have said attempting to force th...Elaine,<br /><br />I should have said attempting to force their truth down my throat. And the reference is to those who believe their religion is the only true religion and their sense of patriotism the only true way to be a patriot.<br /><br />For example, recently at <a href="http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/breaking-news/os-mayor-tosses-man-for-not-standing-for-pledge-of-20140829,0,80941.story" rel="nofollow"> a Winter Garden commission meeting </a> the leader had the police remove someone because they refused to stand up for the pledge of allegiance and a clearly Christian prayer. This despite Supreme Court rulings indicating the gentleman's behavior is permissible under free speech.<br /><br />I have no problem with people holding different opinions than I -- understanding differences allows me to hone my understanding, frequently it allows me to see my narrow way of looking at things was not accurate. Sometimes it allows me to sharpen my perspective and arguments and resolve.<br /><br />But radicals (right or left) know only their own truth and want to force it to be everyone's. That I will not abide--as long as I am able.<br /><br />~ JimJim Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-32700875947595808502014-09-11T09:20:13.020-04:002014-09-11T09:20:13.020-04:00I like the handful of inadvertent animal selfies t...I like the handful of inadvertent animal selfies that people have put on the internet.<br /><br />Like the time a wildlife camera disappeared, only to be found miles away with pictures of an eagle removing it from its moorings. Most of the pictures show the eagle's wings or feet, but one of them is a great selfie when the eagle examines it with its beak.<br /><br />Another is the monkey who got hold of a wildlife photographer's camera and took some pictures. There's now a dispute over whether the pictures are the work of the photographer, and thus copyrighted to him, or the monkey, in which case they are in the public domain. Turns out it's the monkey.<br /><br />A family dropped a phone with camera capabilities during a car "safari" through a wildlife park, and when the staff retrieved it, there were some "selfies" from curious inhabitants.KM Rockwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03973749764907859829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-26152036084019054672014-09-11T09:11:33.658-04:002014-09-11T09:11:33.658-04:00Jim, fortunately, I don't run into many people...Jim, fortunately, I don't run into many people like you describe, however I do read and hear about them. It's one of the reasons my radio station is NPR and what little TV I watch is on PBS. I could never stomach what I've heard is on talk radio. Years ago before I discovered NPR, I used to wake up to a local radio station with people calling in about various topics. Their rantings, mostly political in nature, upset me so much, that once I called and gave a rebuttal. After that I no longer listened to that morning station. In the letters to the editor column on Sundays, there is one woman, who always has so many negative things to say that I look for the signature first and when it's her, I don't read her letter.Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-55190747310585179062014-09-11T08:44:02.914-04:002014-09-11T08:44:02.914-04:00Who is forcing their truth down your throat, Jim? ...Who is forcing their truth down your throat, Jim? Just curious. I see things on Facebook all the time that I don't agree with, but people are allowed to have opinions other than mine. Like selfies, it is a form of self expression. I don't "un-friend" them if I don't agree. I agree to disagree--don't you agree?E. B. Davishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16746747050278597888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-64836014026174952522014-09-11T07:27:00.995-04:002014-09-11T07:27:00.995-04:00I rarely do selfies -- and when I do it's usin...I rarely do selfies -- and when I do it's using the timed delay feature of my camera, sitting on a tripod so I can join a family picture. Sometimes on trips I'll ask someone to take a picture of Jan and me.<br /><br />Other people's selfies don't bother me. I mostly ignore them.<br /><br />While Elaine has some valid points, the so-called "me generation" is mine and I'm sure we would have participated the same way today's generation does is self-talk if film hadn't been so expensive and we were stuck with party-lines for our land-line phones and Al Gore hadn't yet invented the internet.<br /><br />Frankly, I'm more worried about people who think they have the only truth and want to force it down my throat than people who want to tell me what they are eating, like right now...<br /><br />~ JimJim Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-40740542854513761822014-09-11T07:26:27.365-04:002014-09-11T07:26:27.365-04:00E.B. I agree with you. Besides the time glut that ...E.B. I agree with you. Besides the time glut that I don't want to deal with, it' another reason why I don't twitter and don't go on Facebook very often. Just keeping up with emails is hard for me to do.<br /><br />Fortunately, I haven't noticed that people don't value those who serve. I know our newspaper seems to always doing articles on those who do, and I'm pleased to read about so many teens and even children who are doing things to help others. I wonder if my experience is different than yours because of where I live in NE Ohio and not in a large metropolis.Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-22148531580688214222014-09-11T06:50:02.135-04:002014-09-11T06:50:02.135-04:00We seem to be obsessed with self. It's a sign ...We seem to be obsessed with self. It's a sign of our narcissistic times. Self expression used to involve work. We cooked a fine meal, painted, designed, wrote, etc. to fulfill ourselves. Selfies to me only show immaturity, nothing required. <br /><br />Modesty and service to others used to be valued. Not as much now. Some people think those who volunteer are suckers. But service to others can also be taken to the extreme. In a different era fulfilling one's own dreams was looked at as selfish. Self-sacrifice was expected. As usual in this country, we go from one extreme to the other. <br /><br />I don't need to read about details of trips or other life events on Facebook or see selfie pictures posted on Twitter. Self-promotion doesn't have much to do with "products" anymore. We sell ourselves, make ourselves into products. Does that equate to self-worth? Materialism at its finest. But at what cost?E. B. Davishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16746747050278597888noreply@blogger.com