tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post4686863496849629026..comments2024-03-28T18:40:05.789-04:00Comments on Writers Who Kill: Big and BoldJim Jacksonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-66261092918825913352014-04-15T18:22:46.918-04:002014-04-15T18:22:46.918-04:00Chief Standing Bear must have been an true visiona...Chief Standing Bear must have been an true visionary. Seeing the memorial inspired me to think bigger and not limit myself. <br /><br />I hope you find the perfect home for your WIP, Shari. What a wonderful feeling to have completed your novel. Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-45627651645517110932014-04-15T17:36:30.083-04:002014-04-15T17:36:30.083-04:00But Kara, if it is something you really want to do...But Kara, if it is something you really want to do, then why not. I didn't pick huge goals. Twelve pounds off and KEPT off by year's end and a reasonable exercise goal, which if I'm doing what I should will not be a stretch.<br /><br />If it is truly a SMART goal, and mine is, then why not add a bit of extra incentive and for me, fear of embarrassment is perhaps a stronger motivator than maintaining good health. (And that's the fact I should be leery about publishing, but I fear it is the truth.)<br /><br />Besides the numbers show that such tactics work, and y'all know I'm the numbers guy on this blog. <br /><br />~ JimJim Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-64035195001907206202014-04-15T17:31:24.597-04:002014-04-15T17:31:24.597-04:00You're a brave man, Jim. I don't think I c...You're a brave man, Jim. I don't think I could submit my exercise goals and monthly progress (or embarrassing lack of progress) for a peer review. Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-16674927302706774212014-04-15T17:08:11.831-04:002014-04-15T17:08:11.831-04:00The Crazy Horse Memorial is so impressive - not ju...The Crazy Horse Memorial is so impressive - not just for its size but as a powerful symbol of faith in the future - I love that it is so big that it won't be finished in one, or even several generations. <br />My goal is to get my WIP (which is now completed, and just a Work) published. This trying-to-get-published part of writing is not as much fun as the actual writing, but it's the goal. <br />I did get a kick out of your attempt to get your errand done being foiled by a police stand off! Good grief! Hope all ended well.Shari Randallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16425493627354028820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-15267709258666590782014-04-15T15:43:37.605-04:002014-04-15T15:43:37.605-04:00Kara,
I am using peer pressure -- actually my fea...Kara,<br /><br />I am using peer pressure -- actually my fear of fessing up to failing -- to help me meet my weight loss and exercise goals for 2014. At the end of each month I post the results -- and since March was not quite what I wanted I promised to do a mid-April (due tomorrow) update to see if I was back on track.<br /><br />~ JimJim Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-23224746801819814452014-04-15T15:02:58.720-04:002014-04-15T15:02:58.720-04:00KM, you make a good point about setting realistic,...KM, you make a good point about setting realistic, achievable goals instead of overly ambitious ones that can set us up for failure.<br /><br />I see history beginning to repeat itself in the real estate market. People are flipping houses (buying low and selling high) again. Hopefully, the investors learned their lesson from the housing bust and are more selective about what they purchase this time around. Perhaps slow and steady does win the race.<br />Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-54432843199133489072014-04-15T14:43:28.421-04:002014-04-15T14:43:28.421-04:00Gloria, I heard about a collection of glass flower...Gloria, I heard about a collection of glass flowers at the Harvard Museum of Natural History. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to see them when I lived near Boston. I hope that you are able to go one day.Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-18605785884450123662014-04-15T14:36:49.070-04:002014-04-15T14:36:49.070-04:00Exciting goals, Carla. I've heard that account...Exciting goals, Carla. I've heard that accountability (peer pressure) is a good way to make sure we meet our goals. So, I wrote a reminder on my September calendar to find out if you met or made progress on the three you listed here. Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-77532060795029770392014-04-15T13:43:30.164-04:002014-04-15T13:43:30.164-04:00I'm a plodder.
Goals that are too lofty or a...I'm a plodder. <br /><br />Goals that are too lofty or ambitious set me up for failure. And I can fail quite well on my own, thank you, without any help. I do try to learn from my failures. I look at things like the overly optimistic real estate market, the people who embrace extreme healthy living and then become ill anyhow, the parents who are so sure the unrealistic goals they set for their children can be met if only the poor kid would try harder and follow their advice...<br /><br />I have a set of fairly realistic goals, and I work toward them. However, I am open to the new and unexpected, and try to embrace opportunities that I didn't expect. I remember What Seneca said: "Luck is when preparation meets opportunity."<br /><br />Gloria, I too am aware of the limitations of time. On a certain level I subscribe to the idea that everyone must die, but surely, in my case, an exception will be made.KM Rockwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03973749764907859829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-57440450698750339862014-04-15T13:19:16.600-04:002014-04-15T13:19:16.600-04:00Kara, I didn't know about Chihuly's injuri...Kara, I didn't know about Chihuly's injuries. I know there is some amazing glass flowers at a museum in Boston - I think at Harvard - but I'm not sure who the artist is. I want to visit it someday because my sisters who have seen the glass flowers found them amazing. Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-40415369238993475692014-04-15T12:28:30.811-04:002014-04-15T12:28:30.811-04:00What's great about goals is that they keep us ...What's great about goals is that they keep us from being static and complacent. My goals: find publisher for literary novel. Finish WIP by August. Attend writing residency this summer. Now, somebody smack me if I don't succeed or at least make good progress!carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15985823239660829148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-88292400604072960902014-04-15T11:58:57.271-04:002014-04-15T11:58:57.271-04:00Facing mortality is a big motivator, Gloria. I’m h...Facing mortality is a big motivator, Gloria. I’m happy that you stuck with your writing goals because I enjoy reading your stories--Ladies of the Garden Club is en-route to my house. <br /><br />Museums are inspiring and Chihuly's work fascinates me. He has created glass miniatures as well as large scale sculptures and everything in between. It sounds like he has learned to be flexible about how he achieves his goals. After losing sight in one eye and injuring his shoulder, he hired artists to actually create the glass.Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-27895121239424040272014-04-15T11:32:10.478-04:002014-04-15T11:32:10.478-04:00Warren, I like how you set a goal, achieve it, and...Warren, I like how you set a goal, achieve it, and move on to another goal. You know what you want and just do it. Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-55027524217866801372014-04-15T10:56:53.564-04:002014-04-15T10:56:53.564-04:00Kara, I forgot to mention. Last summer I saw amazi...Kara, I forgot to mention. Last summer I saw amazing glass sculptures by Dale Chihuly at the Tacoma Art Museum in Washington. Most were smaller works, but in the large reflecting pools outside the museum, there were huge glass blocks representing ice breaking up in a river or lake. Inside there was a whole room of glass sculptures not only by him, but numerous other artists, too. My sister and I spent hours in that mueseum.Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-78782262251388538522014-04-15T10:51:53.416-04:002014-04-15T10:51:53.416-04:00I think smart goals like Jim suggests is the way t...I think smart goals like Jim suggests is the way to go. However, in spite of my incredibly long "Things to do" list I write each week and never finish, I'm prone to let whims take over which is why I have more gardens than I can manage and have taken on new projects throughout my life. <br /><br />Martin Buber said, "To be old is a glorious thing when one has not unlearned what it means "to begin." When I faced my mortality and realized I might not actually reach 100,that's when I began writing more than the occasional poem and concentrated on being published. I have kept to that goal of writing; novels, short stories and poetry and have managed to get published albeit small. Although I'll never become a well-known author or poet - I've always been realistic about that - putting down words and creating a story or poem is the major part of my satisfaction. Gloria Aldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13581719606924364447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-3214378960711676952014-04-15T10:37:46.778-04:002014-04-15T10:37:46.778-04:00Good thoughts, E.B. I agree that it's crucial ...Good thoughts, E.B. I agree that it's crucial to take action otherwise goals will never be achieved. I like how you jump on an opportunity and rearrange your priorities.<br /><br />You're right that life happens when we're making plans. This morning I planned to run an errand that I have been procrastinating for weeks. Just as I was about to leave the house, I received a text alert that there was a police standoff in that area and streets were closed. I guess we have to be flexible and roll with it. Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-40628178436837204012014-04-15T09:58:57.791-04:002014-04-15T09:58:57.791-04:00My goals change when I achieve them. I wanted to ...My goals change when I achieve them. I wanted to write a novel. Then I wanted to be published. Then I wanted to have a novel published and so on. Warren Bullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07789270258599769915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-63891800944859337682014-04-15T09:13:09.950-04:002014-04-15T09:13:09.950-04:00My overall goal is to be a professional fiction wr...My overall goal is to be a professional fiction writer--hopefully for profit. But like business plans, I find people find more time writing a business plan or goals than actually achieving the goals. Most of the time, those goals are quite lofty. Like usual, I do the best I can every day. If an opportunity comes along, I jump on it and rearrange my priorities to encompass the opportunity. Usually, I'm a planner, and yet coming from D. C. where everyone tends to analyze everything to death, I think too much time can be spent in contemplation and planning. Time is enough of an issue without taking more time away from writing. Anyway--doesn't life, like writing, happen when you busy planning it?E. B. Davishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16746747050278597888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-7130940117649784712014-04-15T08:59:43.487-04:002014-04-15T08:59:43.487-04:00How impressive, Jim! I think quitting your job for...How impressive, Jim! I think quitting your job for pay and figuring out what you wanted to do was a bold goal. I hope that you blog about what those six months were like for you. I'd love to know how you narrowed down your choices to writing. My guess is that you had a measureable system in place for doing that. Kara Cerisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484336785514235707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-993649290245605005.post-13828158078470240822014-04-15T05:58:33.394-04:002014-04-15T05:58:33.394-04:00One of the SMART things I learned in corporate lif...One of the SMART things I learned in corporate life were to set SMART goals. Now this was between management and employees, but I think it works just as well between superego and id. The acronym stands for Specific, Measurable, Agreed, Realistic and Time-based. They work. Whenever I try some huge, overarching goal it crashes for lack of structural support.<br /><br />Which is not so say that one should not dream and search for a way to create your dream. I quit working for pay because I knew there was more to life, even if I didn’t know at the time exactly what I wanted to do. The six-month goal was to (1) turn down all offers/suggestions/opportunities presented by friends and associates, and (2) figure out what I wanted to do.<br /><br />I decided to become a writer. And twelve years later, here we are. So while dreams can and should be large and encompassing, the structure to fulfill those dreams should be based on SMART goals.<br /><br />Or not; your mileage may vary.<br /><br />~ Jim<br />Jim Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15090252530437277145noreply@blogger.com